In this issue:

Dale Carnegie's second ten tips from How to win friends and influence people


Books of the month

Do You Respond to Requests for Proposals without all the information ?

    ISSUE 11 • July 2007

  
 

   Dale Carnegie's second ten tips to
                  Win People to Your Way of Thinking from
           "How to win Friends and influence people"
                                                  By Rob Biggin (The rainmaker's coach)

   

I am re-reading Dale Carnegie's classic "How to win friends and influence people" and I am reminded how simple and straightforward the style is and how relevant it still is in today's world and particularly relevant for Rainmakers.

Dale recommends the following tactics to win people over to your way of thinking.
 I have heard these principles in different forms from many successful rainmakers especially the part about "Putting yourself in the other person's shoes".

Those of you who have done the Meta-Mirror exercise with us will know just how powerful that can be 

If you haven't read the book yet then I encourage you to...

It's our book of the month again (oh what a surprise ;-]] )

If you scroll down you can order it on Amazon via our web-site..
You'll also find many other books for Rainmakers there too!!

Here's his second ten principles to continue.
(I'll bring you more in the next few tip sheets)

Win People to Your Way of Thinking

10. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.

11. Show respect for the other person's opinion.
            Never say,  "You're wrong."

12. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.

13. Begin in a friendly way.

14. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.

15. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.

16. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.

17. Try honestly to see things
               from the other person's point of view.

18. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.

19. Appeal to the nobler motives.

20. Dramatise your ideas.

21. Throw down a challenge.
 

 

 
   

  

Books of the month(s)

  
This month's pick is " How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. This master work for all people who are working in the field of influencing people  as sales people, rainmakers, consultants or managers and leaders of teams.
In my opinion you would have no better way of spending £7.99 than buying and reading this book.

Originally written in 1936 it's message is still as relevant today as it was then.

It contains many of the principles that the Rainmakers that we have interviewed use unconsciously to develop relationships and business with their clients

Click the book to link to our recommended book page

  
     Do you respond to RFPs without all the information ?
     
                                                                           By Rob Biggin (The rainmaker's coach)


RFPs or  Requests for Proposals usually mean that there are many other firms replying.
  This kind of competition also means it is crucial to differentiate yourself
  You also have to clearly demonstrate that you can meet the client's needs.

You can't do this successfully without certain information.
Some of this information is in the RFP but there's also much missing from the original RFP. To obtain the missing details you must ask the person soliciting the proposal.

Many clients and colleagues throw up their hand in horror when I suggest that the first thing they do in reply to an RFP is to start with questions of their own.

They ask:

1.
     Won't the client be annoyed with my questions?
2.
     Won't the client think I should already know the answers?
3.
     Won't the client be insulted that I'm suggesting their RFP was incomplete?

My view is that if the client is serious about the RFP process, they should welcome your questions. In fact, the more questions you ask, the more focused and relevant your response--saving the client time and resulting in a more compelling presentation.

What can you ask to focus your response and weed out those RFPs that don't have real potential? These are the ten questions I recommend:

1.     Why are you conducting this RFP?
There are many reasons to conduct RFPs
    -dissatisfaction with existing suppliers 
    -cost reduction
    -consolidation to reduce management time, etc.
If you know the client's motivation this helps determine what's needed and how serious they are about awarding the business.
If they can't answer this to your satisfaction, you may not want to participate.

2.     Why did you include us?
You want to know what the client already knows about you and how you are positioned. You can then capitalise on this information to stand apart in the proposal.

3.     What criteria are important to you in selecting a firm?
          How would you rank the criteria?

This will help you craft a focused response, honing in on the issues that are most important to them.

4.     Do you have a timeline for making the decision?
If they don't have a timeline, they may not be particularly serious.

5.     Are there any special circumstances of which we should be aware?

6.
     What kind of relationship do you want with your new supplier?
They may be looking for a partnership, a way to expand head count without hiring or a second supplier to keep the main one honest.
Each approach dictates a different response.

7.    What role will pricing play in the decision?
        What issues are of concern about pricing?
        Predictability? Risk/reward sharing? Cost reduction?

Believe it or not, not all RFPs are about cost reduction, and even those that are may define cost reduction in different ways. Knowing the answers to these questions will help you determine the pricing structure that will appeal most to the client. Many an RFP response has included an alternate pricing proposal that the client was not interested in.

8.     Are there other documents we should review and or people we should speak with prior to responding?
The more information you can gather, the better you can address their concerns.

9.     Who is responsible for managing the competition process?
          Who else will be involved in making the decision?

You need to know who your audience is to craft the most appropriate response.
If the CFO is managing the process, there's a lot of information in that fact.
You may want to communicate differently with different people.

10.   How many other firms are competing?
        Which other firms are competing and who from those firms?

In order to differentiate yourself from your competition, you need to know who that competition is. Some people won't answer these questions, but it never hurts to ask.

Responding to an RFP is a time-consuming process. Before you invest that time, make sure that you have a good chance of winning by discovering if it is an open competition, what the client is really looking for, and what it will take to make you and your business stand out.
   

  

"Our plans miscarry if they have no aim.
When a man or woman does not know what harbour they are making for,
 no wind is the right wind”

Seneca

  

  
Coming in the next few issues 
    
Rob Biggin on getting to rapport quickly

Mike Meyer on organising your customer data to support your processes

 

  

"Think not of yourself as the architect of your career but as the sculptor.
Expect to have to do a lot of hard hammering, chiselling, scraping and polishing."

B.C. Forbes (1880-1954)
Scottish journalist & founder of Forbes magazine