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Why the emphasis on being yourself in business right now?
What’s the point of it?
Do I as a leader need to be
myself?
How’s that going to help me
and my business?
For anyone who
leads and manages others this principle has become crucial. It's one
that leaders neglect at their peril.
As
you will find in the textbooks, ”If you don’t believe in the
messenger, you won’t believe the message” (Kouzes
and Posner, “The Leadership Challenge”).
Numerous
surveys have shown that the most admired leaders are those that
speak the truth, have a clear set of values, and communicate in
their own true voice. People believe those that behave this way and
they are then willing themselves to come out in support of them.
Managers
often wonder why it seems so hard to motivate people, to get and
keep their willing and enthusiastic collaboration. It comes as a
hard discovery that they need to look to themselves to find the
reason.
It
is common to go into organisations where things are difficult or all
is not well, and people are leaving. Most of the time, relationships
are poor, people do not speak well of their managers and don't trust
them. It is most often the case that the leaders need to do some
work on themselves if they are going to turn things around.
The
environment in which many of us work is so changing that we need
increasingly to rely on well-motivated, highly skilled professionals
with considerable expert knowledge, often working in de-centralised
environments, often remotely, where value is placed on excellent
communication, mutual support, networking, and self-direction. This
is no command-and-control life.
The leader now needs to sell a vision, articulate convincing
strategies, build teams where collaboration is strong and trust
high, to create resonance with those they lead and develop mutually
supportive environments.
The
emphasis is on being emotionally intelligent, now a respectable word
in the corporate language. And the first, key aspect of E.I. is
self-awareness, the ability to know and be yourself. After all, you
can’t manage what you are not aware of. Feedback on managers with
weak interpersonal skills is often that they lack awareness: others
see the gaps but they don’t.
I believe
it’s in the culture of our society today. People don’t trust others
who are not genuine.
Increasingly people who communicate well and influence
others for the better are ones whom we believe in. It is as though
we buy what they say. If we get them for who they are, we are more
willing to be open ourselves, to share our own concerns. And only if
the truth is uncovered can we put right what might be wrong.
I came across an example recently where poor leadership and team
working could lead to the delay of a major project for a business,
which was already costing it over £300m. Imagine that cost of that!
If you want to learn more
about how training in Authentic Leadership can help you and your
business, take a look at our special offer this month and then
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